How to Train Your Dog and Child to Behave Safely Around Each Other
Children and dogs can form wonderful friendships — but it’s vital to teach them both how to behave safely around each other.
Why training both matters
For dogs, learning how to act calmly around children reduces the risk of accidents or bites. For kids, understanding how to respect a dog’s space prevents fear and rough handling.
Getting started
- Always supervise early interactions between dogs and children.
- Start with calm introductions — ideally with your child seated so they seem less intimidating.
- Let your dog approach first, then reward calm, gentle behaviour with praise and treats.
- Encourage your child to stroke gently, not pat or hug.
Teach your child to “ask the dog” for affection by pausing mid-stroke — if the dog leans in, they want more; if they move away, respect that choice.
Never leave children and dogs alone unsupervised. Accidents can happen in seconds, even with gentle pets.
If your dog shows fear or aggression, or your child struggles to follow boundaries, seek professional help early from a reputable trainer.